Why Most Relationships Fail
For the Love of Relationships, DO NOT make the same mistakes in your next one!
We’ve all come up with reasons why our last relationships didn’t work out, and most of us have made peace with those reasons. While they may be valid, they probably aren’t useful when it comes to creating your NEXT relationship, so strongly consider these top 3 reasons why most relationships fail so you can optimize the chances of your next relationship being a lasting one.
1. You chose poorly in the first place. We don’t like to hear this but more often than not, we have selected someone, not because they are a match for the fulfillment of the life we want to create, but instead because “it was easy” or they provide one or two seemingly rare qualities. And we get so attached to those qualities that even with all the red flags, we try our best to make it work. And that doesn’t work.
2. You lost yourself. Sometimes we are aware of this inside the relationships, other times we are not. But a sure sign is when after it ends, you either feel a NEED to be in another relationship quickly, OR you feel like you can finally do the things you’ve always wanted to do… which means you weren’t doing those things inside the relationship. In other words, you stopped taking responsibility for your own alignment, boundaries, and inner contentment.
3. Over time, you started expecting him to be EVERYTHING you ever wanted instead of a part of your life. This is incredibly common. As time passes, we want him to be our lover, our partner, our parent, our best friend, our socialite, someone to agree with us and someone to challenge us. AND quite often, the things we want from our partner completely contradict each other. Let’s say he happily obliges and does become EVERYTHING you want and need. Well, then you my love, will start to lose yourself because you’ve become completely dependent on this one-stop-needs-shop, which is incredibly limiting and unfulfilling. Make sense?
Now that you know the top 3 reasons
why most relationships fail,
how are you going to prevent it in the future?
You will need to do the work now and I have 2 suggestions for you.
First, be sure to check out our website so you can learn more about what a POWER LOVE relationship might look like!
Second, make sure you participate in our free Power Love webinar to get you on the right track.
Love Yourself. Love Your Life. Fall in Love… Don’t settle.