Intentional Dating with Purpose
How might intentional dating with PURPOSE change everything?
Do you want the person you decide to commit to, to be the LAST person you commit to? Dating is the action to get you there. But if you date without purpose, you might find yourself giving up or going on a million dates with no man at the end of it.
Here are 3 ways of Dating with Purpose so you can cause your own Dating Revolution!
Be Unapologetic about What You Want.
In other words, what is the purpose of you dating? Is it for a life partner? Great, say that! It doesn’t mean you want that guy across the table as your life partner. You hardly even know that guy! You’re just saying that you’re not dating willynilly like a 16 year old. You have a purpose behind your actions, and that is powerful!
You can even bring this further! If you want passion, then start asking for it. Create date ideas that pull for passion like tango dancing or a beach fire. Was that first kiss a little weak? Next time, tell him to grab you and kiss you like he means it. Do you see? Being unapologetic about what you want brings purpose to your dating.
Date for Your Own Expansion.
Whatever you do, don’t make dating just about getting what you want. While the first suggestion IS powerful, it’s insufficient. It will burn you out quickly. Look at it this way, imagine you’re travelling and you’re meeting all kinds of different people. Isn’t that the best? You learn so much about humanity and about yourself. Bring what you learn to your dates. In a sense, travelling your own city now, beyond your own limited view of humanity. There is so much to gain from dating for your own expansion in that way.
Dating with Pride.
Shout it from the rooftops! This is an important conversation. It is time to free yourself from the constraints around dating and looking for love. Are people making you feel bad for “still being single?” Screw them! Are others making you feel like you shouldn’t even want a relationship? Even worse! Do not let others shame you around not having what you want yet.
You’re allowed to want whatever you want. If you want a chance at fulfilling it, you can’t be ashamed of that. If you’re looking for extraordinary love then I want you doing this loud & proud. If the people in your life don’t get behind you, you’re going to have to wash out that noise with your pride for what you want and how you’re going after it!
So these are 3 ways for intentional dating with purpose that will have the capacity to revolutionize your love life. This is a new kind of conversation around love and dating. This is Power Love.
The next step I suggest if you’re looking for love, is to sign up for my free Power Love Workshop so you can start to get more clear about what you want and what to do about it!
Secondly, I want you to listen to my interview with Laura Kennedy from her Manifest Epic Love Summit. You’ll hear how setting “standards” can be a sneaky way of never having to risk your heart. You’ll also hear my story (which is a good one). You’ll hear how achieving POWER LOVE is about SO MUCH MORE than simply having a checklist of traits.