Does Height Matter? (Do Women Like Short Guys?)
Does height matter?
Many women say it does and whether you’re a man or woman, you need to know why and what to do about it.
“He’s nice but he’s short”. Whether you’re a woman who has uttered these words or a man who is lacking in the height department, you need to watch this video.
As a love expert working with people all over the world, I’ve seen many women reject men that could have been their dream come true.
Who’s to blame? BOTH!
Here’s why women say height matters and what to do about it
Men and women are trained from a young age to find certain things attractive and certain things unattractive. So just like it’s completely superficial for a man to reject a woman for her bra size, it’s equally superficial for a woman to reject a man for his height. Does height matter to you?
The interesting thing is, usually women are not superficial when it comes to looks. We see gorgeous women with ugly men all the time! And in Hollywood, most male actors are short! So why is it so common for women to date ugly men, but not short men?
It’s because women aren’t actually attracted to how a man looks. They are attracted to how a man makes her feel. Now listen up, Most women want to feel safe, feminine, and special. Look at the Beauty and the Beast story, she falls in love with a BEAST for goodness sake! He was clearly a protector.
So When it comes to a LACK OF height, women instinctively feel
- the absence of protection
- she feels self-conscious of HER size
- she feels like she’s settling for average
So does a short man stand a chance?
Of COURSE!
He just has to offer those three things- Safety/protection, make her feel feminine, Make her feel special/lucky that you are choosing her
WOMEN– you can play a part in this! Have the guts to let men know what you want! Teach them how to win with you! As important as the ME TOO movement is, there are a lot of men who are terrified of expressing their masculinity. They think in order to be safe, you want them to be soft. NO THEY DON’T! You want your male friends to be soft. You want your man to be a man!
Now that we’ve dispelled the myth of height, let’s look at what’s next.
Your preconceived notions about height aren’t the only things in your way. We have so much programming in us that prevents exceptional love which is why your next step is to participate in my Power Love Visualization where you can clean the slate and start designing a new future for you.
And if you are single and want your next relationship to be a lasting one, make sure you participate in my Free Power Love Workshop!
Love Yourself. Love your life. Thrive in love. Take care.